The Affair Is Over. The Real Work Starts Now.

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In this workshop, Terry Real gives you a clear, honest path from guilt and self-protection into the remorse, transparency, and relational skills that actually rebuild trust.

Terry Real, couples therapist, speaker & NY Times bestselling author

“Infidelity is an act of selfishness and betrayal. Find what lit up in you in the infidelity and figure out how to bring that back home.”

When You're the One Who
Caused the Damage…

Two-thirds of couples weather the storm of infidelity on their own, but it often feels like an impossible journey. You know what you did. You may be drowning in shame, struggling to explain yourself without sounding defensive, or terrified that the damage is simply too deep to repair.

But here’s the truth:
While the pain may feel overwhelming now, it won’t always feel this way. Infidelity is a trauma, and healing requires time, space, and guidance to process what’s happened.

There are 3 phases to truly restoring trust and building a more robust relationship from this crisis.
In this workshop, you’ll discover how to navigate these phases and gain a clear path to healing. Whether you’re seeking to repair your relationship or rebuild yourself, this workshop will give you the tools to move forward with hope and confidence.

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40% of Couples End Their Relationship After Infidelity—

Infidelity is trauma that leaves deep emotional scars. Without the right tools, the pain lingers, trust feels irreparable, and the distance between partners grows wider.

But what if this crisis could become the turning point for profound transformation?

This workshop is about using the crisis of or the pain of betrayal as a catalyst for deeper intimacy, trust, and connection.

The Old Way

Feeling lost in the aftermath of betrayal
Feeling that trust can never be rebuilt
Overwhelmed by pain, grief, and mistrust
Experiencing shame
Continuous conflict without resolution
Infidelity = Break up

The New Way

Recover from shattered trust
Uncover the meaning behind infidelity
Use the crisis for transformation

Is This Workshop for You?

This workshop is designed for:

Couples: If you’ve experienced betrayal and want to rebuild trust.

Individuals: If you’ve had an affair and feel at a loss as to how to “make things right.”

Past Relationships: If you’re healing from betrayal in previous relationships and want to move forward stronger.

Therapists: If you’re a mental health professional curious about how to guide clients through the crisis of infidelity.

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“I wouldn’t wish the pain of betrayal on anyone, but if you’ve been visited by this crisis, I invite you to join this workshop to explore how to use it as an opportunity for transformation—in yourself, your partner, and your relationship.”

— Terry Real

In Crisis Lies Opportunity…

Discover how this crisis, as devastating as it is, could have the power to transform each of you and transport you into a relationship that leaves the one before you in the dust.

You’ll learn:

1

How to process the trauma of infidelity as the one who’s been hurt and make sense of what happened.

2

Critical communication skills for both partners to calm your triggered reactions and de-escalate conflict.

3

How to express genuine remorse as the unfaithful partner and open up to receive it as the hurt partner.

4

To identify any underlying issues that need to be worked on to build a more robust relationship.

5

How to encourage more of the behaviors that build trust and practices to nurture your connection.

6

Why trust is not an on/off switch, the role of reassuring behaviors, and the signs that trust is returning.

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Discover the 3 Phases To Navigate the Hurt of Betrayal and Move Forward – Together

In this workshop, Terry will walk you through the 3 phases to not only rebuild trust but to create a deeper, more fulfilling connection as a result. 

Phase 1

Recover From Shattered Trust

  • Addressing the key questions of the hurt partner:
  • How could you do this to me?
  • How do I know you won’t do it again?
  • Creating space to grieve the old relationship.
  • Piecing reality back together & making sense of what happened.

Phase 2

Uncover the meaning behind the infidelity

  • Shifting from what happened to why it happened.
  • Understanding what overrode the unfaithful partner’s power to say “no.”
  • The difference between shame & remorse:
  • Move from self-attack into genuine remorse.

Phase 3

Use the Crisis for Transformation

  • Identifying any issues in the relationship that can be worked on.
  • Learning critical communication skills to:
  • Express hurt effectively.
  • Listen non-defensively.
  • Encourage the behaviors that rebuild trust.

For over 30 years, Terry Real has helped thousands of couples not only survive infidelity but use this crisis to completely transform their relationship.

“We don’t want to simply survive the pain of infidelity… instead, can we use this crisis as an opportunity for profound transformation?”

— Sarah P., Portland, OR

“Terry Real’s Boot Camp was life-changing for me and my husband. We’ve been together 30+ years so it’d be fair to wonder what would we possibly have to work on. My love-avoidant, grandiose man said this shifted our relationship to a deeper, more loving level; his love-dependent, grandiose wife agrees. The Boot Camp weekend opened up new ways to talk, to see ourselves and to love each other.”

— A.M., Toronto

“My wife and I both found RLI’s workshop to be exceptional… I would recommend it highly, particularly to couples having communication problems. RLI’s approach is unique, but common sense, so it is easy to understand and, hopefully, to apply.”

— Jac Palmer, London, UK

“RLT teaches us all to stand up for relationship, to ask our partner what they need so they in turn can deliver us what will make us happy! And since it busts the hidden truths of patriarchy, it is the couples model of diversity and equality that adapts to change, as we learn to enrich the biosphere of the relationships that feed us.”

Here’s Everything You’ll
Receive

3-hour workshop with Terry Real

You’ll learn a powerful 3-phase framework for healing and rebuilding trust. Unlike other programs, this isn’t about simply returning to “normal”—it’s about creating a stronger, healthier relationship that leaves the old one in the dust.
Plus, you’ll gain access to an exclusive Q&A section, where Terry Real answers real-life questions from participants just like you.
Hear real stories, relatable experiences, and expert advice that could reflect exactly what you’re going through.
Whether you’re struggling to process the pain, rebuild trust, or move forward with clarity, this workshop will give you the guidance you need—every step of the way.

Total Value: $550

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What People Say About the Betrayal Workshop

"I felt validated in the first as the betrayed spouse. I gained understanding and some empathy in the second part and some validation for what I have been asking for. Honestly, I was hoping for more in the third part than what was offered in moving forward. It was so powerful that my husband has agreed to couples counseling with an RLT certified therapist."
Mikael Rich
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Bonuses Included When You Join Today

Bonus #1: The Hurt Partner’s Guide to Healing (Worth $149)

This guide offers practical steps to navigate the pain of betrayal and rebuild trust, covering the phases of Crisis, Digestion, and Transformation. It’s designed to help you stabilize yourself, process what happened, and heal deeply, whether for your relationship or personal growth.

Bonus #2: The Involved Partner’s Guide to Accountability (Worth $149)

This guide provides a clear path for the involved partner to take accountability and support their partner’s healing. It includes actionable steps for rebuilding trust through transparency, empathy, and long-term relational growth.

Bonus #3: Exclusive Q&A Recording with Real-Life Examples (Worth $100)

Listen to Terry’s answers to real-life questions from participants like you in an exclusive Q&A recording. Gain insights and strategies tailored to common challenges that may resonate with your situation.

Your 100% Money-Back
Guarantee

We’re confident you’ll find this workshop helpful, but we offer a 100% money-back guarantee for your peace of mind. If, for whatever reason you’re not completely satisfied, please contact us at [email protected] within 14 days of purchase. We’ll issue you a full refund, no questions asked.

What You Get When You Enroll Today

  • Life-time access to the Betrayal Workshop (Worth $200)
  • Bonus #1: The Hurt Partner’s Guide to Healing (Worth $100)
  • Bonus #2: The Involved Partner’s Guide to Accountability (Worth $100)
  • Bonus #3: Exclusive Q&A Recording with Real-Life Examples (Worth $150)
  • 14-Day Unconditional Money Back Guarantee

Total Value: $550

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What People Say About the Product

"I am 8 months down the line from discovering my partner's 2 year affair and 3 months down from knowing the full truth. We've both been doing a lot of inner work via therapy and 12 step programs during this time as well as having completed US online with you. We watched the workshop together and realized how far we've come, how much closer we are and honestly we are being with each other whilst also acknowledging how painful this journey has been. We are growing. I'm so grateful for your work, it really speaks to us and has helped us navigate the unimaginable."
Amy Kian
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Frequently Asked Questions

What happens after I sign up?

As soon as you register, you’ll get instant access to the workshop. You’ll also receive lifetime access to revisit the material whenever you need it.

This workshop is based on Terry Real’s revolutionary Relational Life Therapy (RLT) approach. Unlike traditional therapies that aim to restore the old status quo, RLT helps couples transform their relationships by addressing the root causes of betrayal and building a stronger, deeper connection.

Absolutely. Even if your partner isn’t ready, the insights and skills you’ll gain can support your own healing and may inspire a shift in your relationship dynamic. Many participants have found significant breakthroughs even on their own.

This workshop isn’t just about staying together—it’s about clarity and growth. Whether you decide to repair your relationship or move forward independently, the tools you’ll learn will support your healing and help you create fulfilling relationships in the future.

While no program can guarantee results, this workshop offers practical tools and strategies to help you and your partner rebuild trust, improve communication, and deepen your connection. Many couples who thought their relationship was beyond repair have found hope and healing here.

Yes! If you’re a therapist looking to expand your skillset, this workshop provides valuable insights into Terry Real’s RLT methodology for working with couples in crisis.

Terry Real, LICSW, is a globally renowned family therapist, bestselling author, and the creator of Relational Life Therapy (RLT). He has helped thousands of couples turn their relationships around and trained mental health professionals worldwide in his transformative methods.

We’re confident this workshop will make a difference. If you’re not completely satisfied, simply email us within 14 days of purchase, and we’ll issue a full refund—no questions asked.

What You Get When You Enroll Today

  • Life-time access to the Betrayal Workshop (Worth $200)
  • Bonus #1: The Hurt Partner’s Guide to Healing (Worth $100)
  • Bonus #2: The Involved Partner’s Guide to Accountability (Worth $100)
  • Bonus #3: Exclusive Q&A Recording with Real-Life Examples (Worth $150)
  • 14-Day Unconditional Money Back Guarantee

Total Value: $550

Watch The Betrayal Workshop
Today For Only $47